Diary of a new school mum #2

We are two weeks away from our first ever school holidays! HOLY SHITBALLS BATMAN! Don't blink because it will be the end of the year and all of a sudden our little miss will be off to high school.

I know this from experience, because I blinked and my god daughter is starting high school next year.

I am still trying to come to terms with the whirlwind that is school since I posted my first diary of a new school mum.

There are home readers, sight-words, sports day, yoga day, news day, library day, tokens for houses, trivia nights, Easter hat parades, grandparents day, canteen days, Premier's Reading Challenge, computer class and parent/teacher meetings. Phew, exhausted.

It has also dawned on me that I still I have an innate ability to say yes to everything asked of me. I am now Secretary of the P&C, Uniform Shop volunteer, and computer class parent helper. Yep, more exhausted.

I have also gained more tips that I would like to share....

1. Exchange numbers with other parents in your class, just in case you can't get to school for the 3pm bell and need to frantically ring someone to be that smiling face that greets your babe as they exit the classroom for the day. (or perhaps your other half needs the numbers)
2. When asked to volunteer, it is okay to not put your hand up for everything. A good tip is to literally sit on your hands so you aren't tempted to raise them.
3. Buy two hats, one for the school bag and one to be left at school in your kid's tray. This is for the common rare occurrence when your one year old removes the hat from the five year old's school bag and puts it in his toy box. Then there will be a back up at school so you don't have to run home, grab the hat and run back. (I have learnt that his toy box should be my first go-to place to look for missing items now...even though I did just find my watch in the bin.)
4. Take time to read the homework sheet because the teacher puts little notes to parents on them, e.g. Tuesday is now a kindy sports day so please wear sports uniform....oops!
5. The whole family will be exhausted. Not only will your little school person be exhausted, the whole family will be worn out by this stage of term. I had heard that the kids gets exhausted, but yikes, I am knackered.

How have you survived Term 1 so far?

Any tips you would like to share?

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Diary of a new school mum #1

As week five dawns on our first year as school parents I thought I should blog about our journey so far.

I must admit I feel like I have started a new job....and here is why.

There is the new place that we have to go to each day....and be there by 8.55am for the first bell which signals all the kids to line up with their classes and hear the messages of the day. (Think a new office with restricted parking and only one entrance for the whole office population to enter and exit through......and you need to be there on time with or without your morning coffee.)

There is the teacher, who you are trying to figure out. And no doubt is trying to figure out you and your kid? Will you like them? Will they like you? Are they the best for your child? (Think trying to get to know a new boss. Will you like them? Will they like you?)

There's meeting all the new people. It is completely daunting attempting to remember the name of the kids in our little misses class, not too mention all their parents names too. (Think remembering everyone's names and who goes with who and who does what.)

There is all the paperwork. In the last four weeks little miss has had some note or other in her bag, from Premier's Reading Challenge to school fees to her day to attend Yoga. (Think of your In tray and Out tray and how people just keep putting things in the In tray and the Out tray seems to stay relatively empty.)

I went to the first P&C Meeting of the year a couple of weeks ago. Interesting. Very interesting. (Think a company wide meeting with the CEO and representatives from each department with their own agenda....and you are trying to figure out where you fit.)

I also volunteered at the Uniform Shop on Thursday afternoon last week...with my little man in tow. He is usually so lovely and smiley, but last Thursday he decided to unleash hell. So while I tried to learn where the skorts, short sleeves, long sleeves and sports uniforms were all located he screamed the place down. But who can blame him there were people everywhere running here and there and he was smack bang in the middle. (Think a very disorganised fire drill, where the alarm goes off and people don't know whether to evacuate or not. Is this real? Do we have to go?)

So, my tips so far....

1. Write down the name of the parents you meet next to the name of their child. (I found out that I'm not the only one to do this either.)
2. Introduce yourself to the teacher and say G'Day on a regular basis. If you can, volunteer to help out in the classroom so you can sticky-beak what is going on.
3. Create a "Week" schedule for your kids so you can list which day is library, sports, arts etc to make sure you are packing the right things in the bag....and to help out other parents in the family and grandparents on a Friday...and then you can ditch the paperwork afterwards instead of having a ream of paper magnetised to the side of the fridge.
4. If attending a P&C meeting for the first time, allow two hours, if not more. Allow yourself to be totally bamboozled and be okay with it. Hot topics include canteen and air conditioners. 
5. If volunteering with a small child in tow, cross your fingers and hope for the best.

If you have entered the life of "school parents" this year, how are you going?

If you have been "school parents" for a while, what are your tips?

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